tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-48247556611631615012012-02-16T17:59:02.212-08:00Helping you systematize your marriage for ultimate success.Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comBlogger1021100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-66154136863386369042010-04-05T08:20:00.000-07:002010-04-05T08:23:18.518-07:00

I've switched over to a Word Press blog. Come follow me there www.thebizofmarriage.com

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-73298488035417480812009-12-02T20:47:00.000-08:002009-12-02T22:14:13.846-08:00

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-32888762386626091362009-11-27T22:25:00.000-08:002009-11-27T22:27:15.541-08:00

I'm thankful for my wife's enthusiasm for decorating the house and giving it a great Christmas look.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-11828502969518020502009-11-26T14:45:00.000-08:002009-11-26T14:49:32.387-08:00

I'm thankful for living in the best country in the world! For a Thanksgiving full of good food, fun games with the kids and lazy boob tube watching.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-62279091917872776402009-11-25T13:54:00.001-08:002009-11-26T14:50:03.494-08:00

I'm thankful for kids old enough to be left at home just long enough for Shannon and I to go on a date.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-46321516684384729612009-11-24T09:39:00.000-08:002009-11-24T09:44:48.811-08:00

I'm thankful for computers and other technology that makes my life so much easier...even when it doesn't.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-37450428615573944882009-11-23T09:12:00.000-08:002009-11-23T09:18:49.338-08:00

I'm thankful for people living in their passion! Inspiring me, teaching me and moving me forward in mine! Thanks Kirk Duncan, Dr. Paul, Shantel McBride, Marilyn Sorensen, Angelia Johnson, Ann Web, LuAnn Staheli, The Brown's, and others who have increased my life value over the past 30 days! I look forward to the journey ahead!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-71785749217666504402009-11-22T12:51:00.001-08:002009-11-23T09:16:36.994-08:00

I'm grateful for songs of praise!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-33408048471107518832009-11-20T04:50:00.000-08:002009-11-20T04:55:07.773-08:00

Dating and spending time with your spouse are perhaps the most important things you can do to strengthen your relationship. When I say spend time with each other, I don’t mean spending it in front of the television not talking. Take walks together, take dance lessons together, ride bikes together, sit and talk together, etc. Be creative. Also, keep up the same good behavior you used when you

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-37771118934254363042009-11-20T04:49:00.000-08:002009-11-20T04:50:08.662-08:00

I'm thankful for inspiration...even when it wakes me up at 4:30 in the morning!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-53501029695460119722009-11-19T07:57:00.001-08:002009-11-20T04:49:05.878-08:00

I'm thankful for morning car rides with Shannon.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-34178899615207053922009-11-18T09:58:00.000-08:002009-11-18T10:00:45.130-08:00

I am thankful for my body and the fact that it allows me to run, jump, dance, hug, hold hands, and do just about whatever I ask of it...even if it complains with aches and pains sometimes.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-1651864771045526052009-11-17T12:34:00.000-08:002009-11-17T12:41:15.459-08:00

The feeling of Love can actually overpower your intuition or spirit telling you what you should do in a situation. Many relationships are started out because of a feeling, even though your intuition tells you its not a good idea. It can be like trying to savor the delicate flavor of a strawberry while eating a pickle. Both flavors are present but one completely overpowers the other.When we fall

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-79800957210756140552009-11-17T12:33:00.000-08:002009-11-17T12:34:26.799-08:00

I am thankful for quiet moments in spiritual places.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-11008590425005797852009-11-16T08:01:00.000-08:002009-11-16T08:02:33.993-08:00

I'm thankful for inspiration when I most need it and when I don't expect it!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-74724681969129804052009-11-15T08:41:00.001-08:002009-11-16T08:01:40.517-08:00

Thankful for quiet Sunday mornings! No crazieness from the world stuff. Just me, the family, and the spirit!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-59967717021180141572009-11-14T14:41:00.001-08:002009-11-16T08:01:20.496-08:00

I'm thankful for the ability to make others laugh and to laugh in return.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-68364710414361338862009-11-13T11:11:00.001-08:002009-11-16T08:00:47.628-08:00

I'm thankful my parents decided to get frisky one night 37 years and 9 months ago today and by doing so I was able to come to this world!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-71375189422142321952009-11-12T06:41:00.001-08:002009-11-12T06:42:29.828-08:00

I'm thankful for children who get up on time, get dressed, get ready for school and leave the house with an optimistic outlook on the day!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-73962902725135305632009-11-11T11:58:00.000-08:002009-11-11T12:00:27.105-08:00

Today I am thankful for like minded people to network with. Amazing how God puts specific people in our path to help give us exactly what we need!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40059945354943421922009-11-10T15:59:00.000-08:002009-11-10T16:00:47.181-08:00

Stay Married if you want to have kids!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-26837032716555373362009-11-10T08:22:00.001-08:002009-11-10T08:25:15.286-08:00

I am thankful for people willing to share their talents and skills. It helps me to remember my responsibility in doing so as well! As I let my own light shine, I unconsciously give other people permission to do the same!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-87554250034804259032009-11-09T13:19:00.000-08:002009-11-09T13:29:25.516-08:00

As suggested by my wife, I am going to do a daily post all month long about something I am thankful for.Today I am thankful for a wife who always has good suggestions and is always looking for ways to help me in my personal and business life!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-27897240453410212222009-11-09T10:15:00.000-08:002009-11-09T11:42:14.883-08:00

If you have spent any time reading my blog or my newsletter, it will be no surprise to you when I say I have a bit of a challenge when it comes to spelling and grammar. If you are someone who politely says to yourself, "Why does Dino use two "n's" in finnish?" or "I can't believe he just spelled 'weather' instead of 'whether'" or "Does he not know there is a thing called 'Spell Check?" You, my

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-36215772541941555792009-11-04T13:14:00.001-08:002009-11-04T13:14:54.995-08:00

“May I suggest that our ability and our credibility to exemplify reverence for God is strengthened as we show respect for each other. In today’s society, the standards of decorum, dignity, and courtesy are assailed on every side and in every form of media. As parents and leaders, our examples of respect for each other are critical for our youth and children because they are watching not only the

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-35700426374278923812009-11-02T08:18:00.000-08:002009-11-02T12:03:21.899-08:00

In business currency is used to measure it's success. In the US we use the dollar, Japan the Yen, Europe the Euro and so forth. Every business, even non-profit's, need money to operate successfully. When companies decide to do business with each other internationally, it is vital they know the exchange rate for their primary currency as well as the rate of the currency they will be doing business

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-49145057426738265892009-10-13T13:17:00.000-07:002009-10-13T13:19:08.549-07:00

I hope this summer was good for all of you. I know I learned a lot about myself, my desires, and my genius in life. Its been a while since you've heard from me (I choose to believe you actually noticed), so I wanted to start out this fall season by telling you how much I have missed all of you and your support for The Business of Marriage. There is an old saying, "Man plans, God laughs". I know

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-8749299851039342882009-07-15T10:42:00.000-07:002009-11-06T05:46:34.031-08:00

Have you ever met a couple like this? Have you ever been this way in your own marriage?Why does the media constantly portray marriage as a death sentence, and an end to fun and happiness? Even more importantly, why do we as a society buy into it?Case in point, the "romantic comedy" released earlier this year titled, "He's Just Not That Into You". For those of you who may not have seen it, it

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-53213139010358781602009-06-27T15:00:00.000-07:002009-06-27T15:32:06.509-07:00

So, it's been awhile since that last blog entry. A lot has happened in the past few months, and we've neglected our baby, The Biz of Marriage.Dino has been super busy on a few projects, and so I, the other half of this brainchild, must pick up the slack and start contributing to the blog. I hope you will continue checking in and contributing.I have big shoes to fill. Please be gentle on me :)So

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-33263966673121255872009-06-27T14:44:00.000-07:002009-11-06T05:45:38.640-08:00

I saw this cartoon today and it made me sad. Initially it's funny, but then I felt bad for all the people who really feel this way about relationships.It's such a familiar theme in our modern culture; marriage = end of fun & frolic, and the beginning of an arduous, life-long chore that we are destined to bear.What does it say about our generation, when we live in the best era in history, and yet

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-12137269645680465152009-04-29T10:25:00.000-07:002009-04-29T10:43:21.550-07:00

I travel a lot and often don't get to see the kids and Shannon for a week or two at a time. Although it is hard on us all when I'm gone, we make it a real focus to talk to each other at least once a day. This has really helped keep each others spirits up.I was recently at a engagement and while traveling with a group of other guys, one of them said that he hadn't spoken to his wife in three days.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-24362211509462477402009-04-22T09:36:00.000-07:002009-04-22T09:58:12.314-07:00

The kids are old enough now we have them share in cleaning the dishes duties. The other day it was Avery's turn to load the dishwasher. Although they all take longer then needs to be taken to load, Avery has a way of really dragging it out. About 1/4 of the way through she decides she has to take a bathroom break. No big deal. She comes back about 5 minutes later to begin again. After another 15

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-60588265562034418382009-04-15T10:09:00.001-07:002009-04-15T10:09:46.565-07:00

This is a test to my site through my phone

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-17144250027778629532009-04-15T09:55:00.000-07:002009-04-15T10:07:31.891-07:00

Hey Everyone,First of all, I know it's been a while since I posted. I have been going through some major changes and have not had the time to post anything. In the meantime it has given me a chance to think about the direction of my blog and what I really want to do with it. Up to now it has been simply an advice blog. Tips and ideas I have from my book and my events. Even though I will continue

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-53529278003383834282009-04-02T14:14:00.000-07:002009-04-02T14:23:06.018-07:00

In celebration of Spring we have grown a new look for the blog. As you can tell, we have made it match our web site with our main logo and information as well as changing the name to The Business of Marriage.In honor of that we want to get your feedback on the new look as well as ANYTHING else you want to comment on. Just for leaving a comment you will be entered into a drawing for a $25 American

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-23077014037808873112009-03-26T09:47:00.000-07:002009-03-26T10:12:53.216-07:00

In preparing my book, I want to make sure there are some great examples and experiences from real people. I have asked a few people to write their experience in marriage and somehow relate it to my business idea. This is part of a letter sent to me from a wonderful woman whom I have known for over 25 years. I have watched Donna and her husband over the years and always been impressed with their

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-10967359238534610462009-03-18T10:12:00.000-07:002009-03-19T22:57:28.166-07:00

Too often married couples live in the future expectation as opposed to living in the moment.Sometimes in marriage we tend to find ourselves dwelling on a desired outcome as opposed to living in the present.It's the "when, then" factor of our lives."When "this" happens, "then" I will feel or have that?"When I loose weight, then I can be more sexually available for my spouse.""When he/she listens

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40438375972815281182009-03-17T08:59:00.000-07:002009-03-17T09:48:44.948-07:00

I have a bit of a hang up when it comes to the word "try".In my events I recount the story of the day my dad left. I was 8 years old and I still remember seeing him pull out of the driveway in his Honda packed with his stuff. Leaving our family for good. As I stood in my driveway my neighborhood friend Michelle cam riding up on her bike. She could obviously see I was upset and asked why. When I

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40085791865626404192009-03-16T10:41:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:08:20.268-07:00

In a new post from the couples section of Yahoo, 10 "Relationship Experts" give advice on how to keep your relationship strong. (I'm still wondering why no one called me!) Click here to read the entire article.In it they mention things like, Take Turns Talking, Touch a Lot, Being Positive and Being a Good Date.What I like about this article is it is not a "repair" article. It's a "prepare"

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-52579373117645564452009-03-13T10:56:00.001-07:002009-03-13T10:57:56.021-07:00

Sorry for the lack of postings. I have been sick all week and a little uninspired.I will be back on the wagon again next week.Hope you are all doing great.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-65545142560731234602009-03-06T07:51:00.000-08:002009-03-06T08:29:00.603-08:00

Last time I spoke of asking your spouse how you are doing as a husband or a wife and how to hear that feedback.Now we need to clarify how to make those adjustments.Often, if the adjustments are big in the nature of your relationship you might tend to do that action out of desperation to show him or her you are "Trying" or "Changing". Unfortunately this type of change is usually only temporary

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-11770884514311018782009-03-03T07:11:00.000-08:002009-03-03T08:06:22.458-08:00

Have you ever known anyone who has gone through a "Surprise Divorce"? Where the one spouse was just going on with life, not thinking anything was the matter, then "out of the blue" the other spouse wants them out or worse, a divorce? This is what I call a "surprise divorce". A surprise divorce can be devastating; and not just for the obvious reasons. However being blindsided by a surprise divorce

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-46387659261493998432009-02-26T10:30:00.000-08:002009-02-26T12:44:41.578-08:00

Do you find yourself saying "I don't know" when it comes to decisions in your marriage?When asked your opinion on something as simple as "Where would you like to eat tonight?" and your response is "I don't know" you are only taking the easy way out. The trouble is, this can often be the root of your pointless arguments with your spouse.Let's stay with this simple eating example. You are asked, "

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-12001893866776729522009-02-25T15:38:00.001-08:002009-02-25T15:44:37.742-08:00

Many people are under the misconception that a marriage is 50/50. In order to be your best in a marriage, you need to bring your best.If you were in a game or a business situation are you going to excel by only bringing half your game or knowledge? Of course not.In a marriage you both have to be willing to be all in. Bringing your best selves to the table and consistently doing all you can to

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-2723562094042421252009-02-23T11:41:00.000-08:002009-02-23T12:08:34.306-08:00

How good are you at letting go of a grudge or disappointment? Do you hold on to those little things against your spouse that they've done knowingly or unknowingly to them?If so you are slowly but surely building a wall or barrier between the two of you. Many of us tend to hold onto a lot of little things as opposed to one big thing. But it's the little things that will get you every time.Have you

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-981902618632012502009-02-18T09:55:00.000-08:002009-02-18T12:11:58.996-08:00

I am a Facebook nut. (come join me)Some might say addict. The networking with new friends and reconnecting with old ones is really fascinating to me. Within Facebook there are Notes that can be created. These notes can either express opinions, relay stories or ask probing questions. One of the notes that is being passed around is a questionnaire about you, your life and personality. Within this

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-38822742310589213322009-02-17T09:34:00.000-08:002009-02-17T13:21:10.647-08:00

Quick, when I say "Mc Donalds" what do you think about?How about Nike? Disneyland? Hawaii? Michael Jackson? Dolly Parton? Donald Trump?All of these places and people immediately conjure up a certain thought or image in your head. These images or ideas are specific and for the most part, prevalent with most people. Although there might be a few variations, typically we all have a certain image of

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-72912277369051969012009-02-13T08:43:00.000-08:002009-02-13T16:08:41.233-08:00

In the past three weeks Shannon and I have seen three or four different, so called romantic comedies. (Hey I like an occasional chick flick) Each one of them followed almost the same pattern. Guy and girl meet under false pretense, where one of them is pretending to be something they are not, then under the worst of circumstances they fall in love, the secret is revealed, they hate each other

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-33845037311135267532009-02-11T14:59:00.001-08:002009-02-11T14:59:26.511-08:00

I have to confess to not having read the entire proposed stimulus that President Obama is going to get passed. However, I would actually be willing to bet there is nothing in the package giving money toward any type of positive marriage programs. I would actually be shocked if, out of all the "pork" in the bill there was even one red cent given to pre-marital counseling programs or separation

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-60372247700929349852009-02-05T13:04:00.000-08:002009-02-06T09:08:18.647-08:00

I often talk about having "challenges" instead of "problems". In a previous post I explained that a problem is something your mind automatically puts as a negative and possible stopping point, whereas a "challenge" is something your mind can distinguish as something that can be overcome.One way to over come that challenge was taught to me by T. Harv Eker. even though he still uses the word "

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-71655345729166693872009-02-04T09:02:00.000-08:002009-02-05T09:48:52.035-08:00

Do you know what your spouse's currency is? What makes them tick? How do you know they know, you love them?I've talked before about letting your spouse know what makes you feel loved. This is a bit of a continuation of that idea.We all have things we want, love, cherish or desire of our own. So it makes sense your spouse does as well. It might be time to read a book in a bath with an empty house.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-57109261287232511492009-02-02T11:22:00.000-08:002009-02-02T11:32:11.223-08:00

I have recently become a fan of a great speaker on Marriage. His name is Mark Gungor. He is a pastor and a very funny relationship expert.This entry of his was so on point. If people would stop rushing to the divorce line and step back for a minute. Take a beep breath and give them selves a bit of a "time out", I would bet the divorce rate would decrease. Why is it we are willing to tell our kids

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-92095143501664711372009-01-30T08:42:00.001-08:002009-01-30T08:44:10.080-08:00

Here is a little sample of one of my live events. It was given recently to a small company in the area for employees and their spouses.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-19883954423042013472009-01-28T13:52:00.000-08:002009-03-03T07:26:55.457-08:00

Think of it. Have you ever been in an argument or in a space where you were really angry and you just couldn't get out the point of view you wanted to? Then a few hours after the event, you had calmed down and all of the sudden had the perfect come back or the information you were looking for just came to you.It happens to all of us.I used to think it only dealt with anger, however I realized it

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-17709398533845963642009-01-28T11:50:00.000-08:002009-01-28T13:45:08.428-08:00

At a recent event, a young lady approached me in distress over a matter with her husband. She told me how unhappy she was with the lack of affection he showed her."He never kisses me "just because" any more and hardly even hold my hand in public. At night, he would prefer to sit in his chair as opposed to sitting with me on the couch. In bed, he never rolls over just to snuggle me. As a matter of

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-19558441159213557032009-01-27T09:18:00.001-08:002009-01-27T09:31:59.999-08:00

Successful companies are always forward thinking. They are consistently looking at their goals and finding out the smartest and fastest ways to make them happen by working on it today. They don’t let the hope of the future stop them from working on the business today. Likewise they don’t sit around focusing on failures of yesterday. Think of Donald Trump, at one point he was billions of dollars

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-18352419681110089202009-01-26T13:36:00.000-08:002009-01-26T13:45:59.270-08:00

A key part of the relationship CORE is definitely sex. When your sex live is intact and working at it’s best, everything will be stronger. The importance on this area is not to be discounted or overlooked. When the intimacy in your relationship is working at it’s best everything in your life will be better. Your relationships with your children, co-workers, and friends will be more meaningful.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-77605081213019044702009-01-22T09:09:00.000-08:002009-01-22T09:37:13.749-08:00

Public Displays of Affection are essential to building the feeling of connectedness. To often couples have not problem doing this at the beginning of their relationship, but once the catch is caught and a few years get under the belt, the PDA's tend to get fewer and farther between. Men seem to be the biggest culprits of this lack, however women have been known to slow the back stroking and hand

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40121136437533585582009-01-21T09:27:00.001-08:002009-01-21T09:39:38.229-08:00

After my post yesterday I thought I would post this great video from a man I really admire. Mark Gungor is a great speaker. His company, "Laugh your way to a Better Marriage" is one I intend to participate in and speak with soon. For those of you who have been to my events, I hope you will agree our sense of humor, as well as our desire to improve the quality and importance of marriages in this

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-87626660418504070202009-01-20T10:37:00.000-08:002009-01-20T12:48:53.630-08:00

In most marriage and relationship advice blogs, when it comes to what men want, the writer usually says something like, “Ladies you need to understand to make a man happy he only needs one of two things. So if he isn’t horny, make him a sandwich.” To an extent that might be true. However, men are even a lot easier to understand than that. A real man only wants to be one thing to his wife and only

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40896020070209210272009-01-19T18:09:00.000-08:002009-01-19T18:15:02.617-08:00

Not much today. Spending it with my family.This is really a great holiday and we all should be grateful and thankful to Dr. King.Tomorrow is also a great day as an American. I am not a democrat or an Obama fan. I also believe if Colin Powell would have run for President 8 years ago, he would have been the first African- American President. However, The fact that we are the only major country in

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-69434811563142500352009-01-16T08:22:00.000-08:002009-01-16T09:13:58.801-08:00

As we established, arguing is an important part of your relationship. I should probably mention that doing so in front of your young children, not the best idea. However, as your young children get older, it's good for them to know that mom and dad have feelings as well and sometimes we even get angry with each other. If you are going to let them know that, you also need to show them how you end

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-7027282910588246182009-01-15T09:19:00.000-08:002009-01-15T10:40:12.574-08:00

Have you ever heard someone say, when it came to their relationship, they "never argue"? Whenever I hear anyone say that I automatically think one of two things. "Bull poop!" or "What's wrong with you?" Arguments are important in a relationship. It gives the two of you a chance to grow in your relationship, not feel like one is dominating over the other, it stimulates a sense of respect for each

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-960644368128006352009-01-14T08:57:00.000-08:002009-01-14T09:11:46.778-08:00

For the last 5 days you might have noticed and hopefully taken part in the 5 most important qualities poll on this blog. I got the idea of that poll from an article I read where they basically did the same poll. The only difference was there were more words on the other poll. Even more interesting is the fact that as long as this poll has been around, January of 2003, the poll has been taken

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-83303166099652436462009-01-13T09:39:00.000-08:002009-01-13T09:40:05.895-08:00

I have a passion for marriage just like successful business owners have a passion for their business. I love waking up everyday excited about being next to the woman I love and love growing with, just like successful business owners wake up everyday excited about their day of growing their business. I am emotionally engaged and at my best when I am working along side or with the support of my

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-32212269993633602302009-01-12T19:05:00.000-08:002009-01-12T19:14:39.181-08:00

Successful companies are always forward thinking. They are consistently looking at their goals and finding out the smartest and fastest ways to make them happen by working on it today. They don’t let the hope of the future stop them from working on the business today. Likewise they don’t sit around focusing on failures of yesterday. Think of Donald Trump, at one point he was billions of dollars

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-59251839751591329252009-01-09T08:57:00.000-08:002009-01-09T09:12:40.420-08:00

If you walk into a Doctors office and there were dust webs in the corners of the walls, filth on the floor, the paint on the walls was old and chipping off, the furniture in the lobby looked broken down and smelled bad, the magazines were all from 10 years ago and the doctor told you that he doesn’t believe in going to classes to update his skills because, “If it was good enough then it’s good

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-59208126203801416872009-01-08T10:27:00.000-08:002009-01-08T10:29:42.441-08:00

I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't evenmarry you because I loved you. I married you because yougave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults.And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfectpeople got married and it was the promise that made the marriage.And when our children were growing up, it wasn't a house thatprotected them; and it wasn't our love that

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-59775584063062862912009-01-07T12:51:00.000-08:002009-01-07T13:43:45.790-08:00

Have you ever thought about the power of your words? Think of it. A man and woman are bound together by God and the law due to another person pronouncing they are married. Just seven little words join two people together in the eyes of both government and church. Christians believe the world and everything in it was created by a Word. Lives have been changed by words, both for the good and bad.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-43499202115592522842009-01-06T10:54:00.000-08:002009-01-06T11:41:17.261-08:00

I was recently listening to a CD by John Assaraf an amazing personal development trainer and one of the teachers of The Secret. In the CD he recounted a story about love and respect that I wanted to paraphrase for you. He was at dinner with his wife Maria along with Susanne Summers and her husband Alan Hammil. John's wife asked Susanne how she and her husband Allan have stayed so strong in their

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-83172573744575261122009-01-05T14:32:00.000-08:002009-01-05T14:54:52.731-08:00

In her excellent book, Happy for NO Reason, Marci Shimoff teaches you how to be happy, just because. No reason at all. Not the new toy, not the job, not the family, not the boy or girlfriend, but just because you choose to be. In marriage we too often allow outside sources or a belief in something determine whether or not we are happy. Often a spouse will continue a cycle of depression or self

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-9111102078964032132008-12-31T12:42:00.001-08:002008-12-31T12:52:42.683-08:00

My wish for all of you is to have an amazing new year. I hope this blog is an inspirational and helpful source for you. Whether you are single or married, this blog is meant for anyone who is interested in improving their relationships through practical experiences and ideas.I hope to see all of you at my upcoming events.See you next year!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-91908003648974348262008-12-29T22:38:00.000-08:002008-12-30T10:57:29.658-08:00

Okay, I admit it. I'm having an affair with my computer. I cozy up to my Facebook, lovingly stare at my email and I'm even getting ready to start a relationship with Twitter. Not to mention an occasional fondling of the blogosphere. I use the internet for many reasons. Primarily for research, networking and marketing. Now, I know Im not alone. According to a recent study from IDC an internet

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-2153998563355970452008-12-29T08:56:00.000-08:002008-12-29T10:20:08.714-08:00

The end of a year always seams like a great time for reflection as the approaching new year gives us the opportunity to renew. So take the time this week to sit down and take inventory of what it is you did this last year and what it is you want to accomplish this next year. Celebrate those things you did great at last year. Congratulate yourself for a job well done in specific areas and then

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-76228772184754093812008-12-24T10:18:00.000-08:002008-12-24T10:27:11.745-08:00

Whatever your traditions might be I hope you have a great holiday season filled with love and memories to last a lifetime. From my family to yours,Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-28441144202193112782008-12-22T12:44:00.000-08:002008-12-22T12:55:41.778-08:00

I'm going to make this one a short one for all of you last minute husbands out there still trying to figure out what to get your spouse for Christmas,or if you are feeling the penny's pinch this month.Give her a card, a letter or a mini-book of all the things you can remember about her. From the first time you saw her to now. No major explanations, just the things you remember.Depending on how

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-51764474546366461802008-12-19T08:57:00.000-08:002008-12-19T09:33:35.830-08:00

In our recent poll asking you when you feel the most love towards your spouse, the response was overwhelming.56% of those who participated said they felt the most love for their spouse around the time of their anniversary. A distant second was Christmas time at 26%. Followed by 20% saying their spouses birthday was the time they felt the most love. Surprising to only those who own stock in

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-56416892603119976432008-12-18T13:27:00.000-08:002008-12-18T14:21:09.348-08:00

Recently I heard a news story about some very interesting and powerful council from a Pastor of a church in Grapevine, TX. Why it struck me is because I have often suggested the same thing to couples who are having a strain in their marriage or just want to grow closer to each other.Rev. Ed Young, pastor of the Fellowship Church, suggested to his married couples an entire week of “congregational

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-71477090426850828702008-12-17T09:59:00.000-08:002008-12-17T10:19:17.788-08:00

Do you know what make your spouse feel loved? Do they know what makes you feel loved? Have you asked them? Have they told you?Too often we assume what makes the other feel loved or important and too often we get it wrong. Why? Because we assume we know and yet all we really have to do is ask and we will never have confusion again.What if you had a literal list of things your spouse told you make

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-9598114961108749772008-12-16T10:57:00.000-08:002008-12-16T11:19:51.140-08:00

In a recent study by the Edmonton Journal the number of divorces amongst older couples compared to their younger counterparts unfortunately is on the rise.As a matter of fact between 1993 and 2003, the overall divorce rate fell by more than 11%, led by declines of over 40% among people in their 20’s and close to 30% among people in their 30’s. While divorce among couples in their 40’s rose

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40456869746960333792008-12-15T13:38:00.000-08:002008-12-15T13:53:57.274-08:00

I am the worlds greatest Husband and father. Why? Because I act as if I am.For those of you who have been at my trainings before you have heard me use this phrase over and over again.Acting as if is the fastest way to becoming something you want to be.Do you want to become the worlds greatest husband or father? Then start doing what you think the worlds greatest husband and father would do and

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-85098274314051276702008-12-12T09:54:00.000-08:002008-12-12T10:12:45.998-08:00

It's an old and wise saying which tells us "the best gift is a gift from the heart". So this year why not give a little something extra of yourself in your spouses Christmas stocking this year. A letter of gratitude and love. Sure the shiny(jewelry) and smelly (cologne) things are nice but you will absolutely blow them away with a simple hand written, (or if your like me and need spell check even

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-71305161202579044302008-12-11T05:49:00.000-08:002008-12-11T06:24:23.272-08:00

Isn't it interesting how it takes a tragedy or a challenge in our life to make us rethink a few things. Turn on the news and just about every night there is a story about how bad the economy is and right behind it is a story about how you can, "Tighten your belt" or other tips on how to get through this tough time. Because of the economic struggle many are facing, there is a trend to get back to

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-25997659265768135192008-12-10T10:36:00.000-08:002008-12-10T10:44:27.969-08:00

I have been asked by my non-married friends to create a questionnaire they can use so here goes. The first one was one I tweaked from the internet. This one I tweaked again. I hope it helps assess the strength and maturity of your relationship or pending nuptials. It is suggested that each of you complete it separately, then compare notes. Rate your relationship or expectation of what you want in

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-12894697568822492832008-12-09T06:25:00.000-08:002008-12-09T07:21:03.880-08:00

During this Christmas season try to focus on giving daily gifts to one another. Not gifts you buy, rather gifts from the heart. Why not do a twelve days of Christmas of your own and become the "true love" spoken of in the traditional song. Here are a few suggestions, please feel free to make up your own.On the first day of Christmas my True Love gave to me...1. Big Wet Kiss (In front of kids if

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-47411114352809222752008-12-06T09:55:00.000-08:002008-12-09T06:25:07.230-08:00

This is a questionnaire which may be used to assess the strength and maturity of your marriage. It is suggested that each spouse complete it separately, then compare notes. Rate your marriage on a scale from 1 (lowest) to 5 (highest) in each of the different categories. This will highlight areas for growth. It also highlights differences in perception about your combined strengths and weaknesses.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-53902014210470068452008-11-24T19:25:00.000-08:002008-11-24T19:58:35.201-08:00

Yes it's a bit cheesy since it is this time of year. However, I would encourage all of you to take the time on a monthly basis to tell your spouse how grateful you are to them for the little and big things. If we were all a bit more grateful to each other, in word and deed, our homes would be a much more peaceful environment. Nothing brings peace and harmony into a home more than gratitude for

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-40356713718734263602008-11-12T07:36:00.000-08:002008-11-12T08:24:50.204-08:00

The gay rights movement has compared their plight of supposed inequality to the plight of discrimination and injustice with the black community in this country. They have for all intense and purposes, hijacked the power and message of the civil rights movement led by Dr. Martin Luther King to say they are experiencing the same horrifying discrimination. They have staked a claim that the wrong

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-3212607982429084532008-10-21T16:46:00.000-07:002008-10-21T16:57:22.323-07:00

My best man at my wedding came out a few years later. I still love him as a brother. Just because i don't believe in a certain way of life doesn't mean I have a phobia of anything, it just means I don't agree. I don't agree with people who do drugs, smoke, have affairs, divorce out of convenience or where "goddy" fake gold necklaces with their shirts halfway unbuttoned, it doesn't mean I am

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-35213617370990792392008-10-21T16:45:00.000-07:002008-10-21T16:59:22.866-07:00

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-83660667418954262292008-09-25T08:32:00.001-07:002008-09-25T08:33:10.464-07:00

Hey all-I know it's been forever since my last posting. I have been a little busy with the Millionaire Mind evening here in Salt Lake. It finally happened on the 23rd and it was great.We had about 850 people register and 700 show up. That's a great showing! With over 500 of those being Free people, that's not bad at all.Everyone really enjoyed themselves. They were thrilled when the announcement

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-17357526351106362962008-08-11T09:47:00.000-07:002008-08-11T10:17:52.074-07:00

Last week I had a bit of a scare. I got a call from my mom that my dad, whom she has been divorced from since I was 8, had been rushed to the hospital for suspicion of a heart attack.My dad is 59 years old. Never had any major medical challenges and other than needing to shed about 30 pounds, in fairly good health.The good news is that he is just fine and the doctors think it was just a stress

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-66029634283890324082008-08-04T10:22:00.000-07:002008-08-04T10:55:12.817-07:00

A routine that is so vital to kids is the evening routine. So many parents just send their kids up to bed without a closing of the day. Don't we all want a happy ending? If it's a movie, television show or a book and good ending is appreciated. It's the same with kids and the end of their day.Since our kids were little we have always had a routine to get them in bed. And we always made it an

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-10440865547201418722008-07-30T07:40:00.001-07:002008-07-30T08:36:07.925-07:00

One of my favorite systems Shannon and I use is what we call our Flowers/Formal system.Let me explain: Shannon loves the look of fresh flowers in the house. What woman doesn't right? To be honest, I like it too. Fresh flowers look good, they smell great, there's just not a lot of negatives you can say about fresh flowers. To Shannon it is a constant reminder of my love for her and that I did

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-28790254253133695102008-07-10T13:15:00.001-07:002008-07-10T13:15:39.686-07:00

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-49451690308921912782008-07-09T09:56:00.000-07:002008-07-09T10:21:44.559-07:00

In business there are always things you can control and things you can not. The stock market is something that can not be controlled, the way you invest in the stock market and handle the daily changes in it is something you can control. This is the same in your marriage relationship. I was reading an article recently about dealing with addictions in your marriage and I wanted to share some

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-87242019108332027812008-06-23T11:06:00.000-07:002008-06-23T11:43:01.245-07:00

I'm finally back. Shannon and I figured that in the last month I have been home about a week in total. Jamaica was awesome! We had a great time and really enjoyed not having a cell phone or emails to answer to. It was definitely a memory that the kids will have for a very long time. Here's a little travel tip for you, if you ever go to Jamaica, be careful not to over pack!. By "over pack" I

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-29449409121653496582008-05-09T14:59:00.000-07:002008-05-09T15:01:10.675-07:00

We just put up our new site at www.thebizofmarriage.comThere is some great information on our new two day event. Look forward to seeing you there.

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-2354067030332192142008-05-08T13:03:00.000-07:002008-05-08T15:24:06.603-07:00

Wow, this last two weeks has flown by. A week ago we left to Denver for the Millionaire Mind Intensive. What an experience that was!!I actually got to view it as a volunteer. It was really interesting seeing the transformations that occurred from an entirely different angle. To watch my friends and family transform themselves through was really a unique gift.Something that I did not expect to

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4824755661163161501.post-83534437257208295822008-04-10T11:18:00.000-07:002008-04-10T11:26:17.593-07:00

This month is supposed to be the month I start writing specific chapters my book as opposed to just a bunch of notes, thoughts and statistics that I have gathered up to now. I'm also in the middle of writing all of the curriculum for the two day event on May 30-31. The challenge seams to be, I'm not in the mood! After the Millionaire Mind event and all the work that was involved in that, I feel

Dino Watthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307349384946663496noreply@blogger.com